Friday Five Things 7/23

“To affect the quality of the day, that is the highest of arts.” – Henry David Thoreau

I think the quote above is going to mean something different for everyone. For me, it is getting outside to move my body, mindfulness in gratitude, and checking things off my to-do list! What is it that you can do for yourself to affect the quality of your day?

  1. Hiking. I didn’t hike at all last week because I was limiting my driving while waiting for my new tire. So it was a top priority to get out into nature this week. I went for a long hike near Boulder and it was the life-giving fulfillment I needed!
  2. Fun projects. In the midst of continuing to finish painting our house, I have let myself do a few little fun side projects. One of them has been painting a cardboard cat house that I bought for the kitties last Christmas. It has been sitting out in the living room with it’s Christmas theming since December and I decided rather than toss it, that I would make use of a few of the paint samples we decided not to use. So while we are getting a fresh coat on our house, Buzz and Portia are getting a new look for their little playhouse!
  3. This recipe. I finally had a zucchini big enough to harvest this week and I made this Zucchini Butter Pasta recipe from Smitten Kitchen. I added mushrooms because it seemed like the right thing to do. Guys, I make a lot of pasta and I think this is my favorite pasta recipe I’ve ever made. I scaled down the recipe a little bit for just two people, but don’t make that mistake. We would have eaten more if there had been more, it was SO GOOD. I’m stalking two baby zukes on my plant right now because I want to make it again as soon as they are ready!
  4. Happy tired clean dogs. Bama and I met up with a friend at the dog park this week and they ran around like lunatics. And then ran through the little creek and everyone got so muddy. But we came home, took a bath, and snoozed HARD. We don’t get out to the dog park much these days and when we do…it’s hard to get Bama to play with other dogs. So it was really fun to watch her make a friend and get out some wiggles in a social way.
  5. Surprises in the mail. A friend of mine accidentally bought the same puzzle twice and instead of returning the second one, she mailed it to me! It’s always fun to get mail, especially when it isn’t your birthday or a holiday. It makes me want to start sending my friends little surprises at random because it made me smile so much.

Mid-July Goals Update

“Success is a collection of problems solved.” – I. M. Pei

Hello! I haven’t posted a goals update since the beginning of May. Things derailed a little this summer, but that was anticipated! Overall, I feel like I’m still making progress on the things that are most important this year.

Be Present – I’ve been taking time to myself to journal (almost) every day. I also have been going on weekly coffee walks with a friend of mine on Mondays and it is such a great reminder of being present in the moment and engaged with the world and people around me. Feeling good about where I am now versus where I started the year. I’ll also say that spending a lot of time painting the house this summer has helped. It’s not really a multi-tasking type activity!

Focus on the Essential – Things got a little off the rails in May and June…I bought a few clothing items that weren’t really necessary but they’ve turned out to be some of the go-to items in my closet! I been really good at using up what I have from a consumables standpoint before buying new things. And I’ve been really intentional about purchases for the house. We’ve been checking at the Habitat Restore and Facebook Marketplace for specific things, trying to buy secondhand if we can as well as only buying what is really needed. So far it’s paying off! We found a Crate and Barrel loveseat that fits the space we wanted to fill for $65!! Is it perfect? No, not perfect. But it’s comfy and cozy and we can cover the ugly fabric with a blanket for now! And honestly, the cats are equal opportunity at destroying fabric…so it doesn’t hurt as much to hear them tearing at a $65 couch as it would a $3000 one…

Stay Connected – This has gotten much easier now that things are opening back up and people are meeting up in person now! But even though I’m much more comfortable meeting up with one or a few people for drinks or coffee, I am glad that a few of my little zoom groups have continued. I know eventually I’ll travel to go see my more distant friends but it’s great that we’ve normalized FaceTime or phone calls for us where before they were such a rare thing in my circles.

Activate Inner SJW – This one had felt like an epic fail for me so far this year. I reached out to a few nonprofits about volunteering and either never heard back or was told that they aren’t accepting new volunteers during the pandemic. So…I need to put this back on my to-do list for finding the right place to volunteer. In the meantime, I’ve been seeking out expert voices to continue my education about systemic racism and continuing conversations with people around me.

As for the other goals I had recently, I think I’ve been doing pretty well. I’ve been using a habit tracker for some of the daily items and it helps a lot!

  • Hike 20 miles/other regular movement – I did 20 miles in both May and June and I’m on track for another 20 this month! I’ve been leaving the dog at home to tackle some longer hikes and really enjoying spending more extended time out in nature. I’ve also been doing short body weight exercises a couple times a week which has been feeling really good. This week was kind of a bust in terms of movement, but we all have off weeks, right? Just get back on the horse!
  • Finish the outline and get started on research for new book – Yes! I am still doing research but I’ve written more than 25,000 words of my manuscript since the middle of May!
  • Read 5 books – I haven’t hit 5 books every month, but that’s partly because I’ve been reading some really long books. I also haven’t been making reading a priority, but I changed that this month and have added read 30 minutes to my habit tracker. It is definitely helping me move through some of my book backlog. I think I’ll easily hit 5 this month, maybe more? We’ll see.
  • Eat healthier and drink 60oz of water daily – Healthier being a relative term, things are going well in this arena. Some days I eat more Cheetos than I’d like but I am learning to really listen to my hunger cues and understand what my body is telling me. Like right now it’s saying I’ve had too much sugar over the past few days and not enough movement. So we remedy that as best we can. Also, I’ve been hydrating like a champ!
  • 15 minutes of cleaning every day – Not 15 minutes every day anymore, but I’ve definitely made cleaning or tidying part of my daily routine. For the most part, if I see something that needs doing, I do it rather than put it off. Overall this has had a really good effect on how I feel about my space. I don’t get stressed about the mess anymore.

Friday Five Things 7/16

“Stay close to any sounds that make you glad you are alive.” – Hafez

Hello again! I actually got my act together and wrote my blog post on time! I also have a couple ideas for some one-off posts, so I’ll scatter those throughout the coming weeks on non-Friday days. As far as weeks go…this was a pretty good one.

  1. Catching up with old friends. Over the weekend I had the opportunity to see a high school friend who I haven’t seen, or talked to really, in about twenty years! She was visiting a mutual friend who I do see regularly and the three of us got together for some drinks and a stroll around town. It was so fun to hear everything that’s been going on in her life recently and to see that she is doing so well. A good blast from the past to be sure. Later in the week I also had a good phone catch-up with another long distance friend.
  2. Taking care of nagging tasks. I crossed two of those annoying, nagging tasks off my list this week! You know, the ones that come with being an adult that you really just want to ignore? The first was taking my car to the tire shop. I’ve had a very slow leak in one of the tires and refilled it with air probably one more time than was responsible before taking it in. Turns out the tire needed to be replaced and luckily I had bought a warranty when I got the new set a couple years ago and the replacement was free! The other little nagging task was to file some mail and papers that have been stacking up in our office. Nothing important, but just stuff that shouldn’t be throw away just yet. I have a bad habit of adding to the pile rather than filing right away, so the stack was getting bigger and bigger. I finally set a 20 minute timer and told myself I’d get as much done in that time as I could. As is usually the case, it took much less time to go through everything than I had thought and now…no pile! At least until I bring in the mail tonight.
  3. Afternoon thunderstorms. Colorado has a very dry climate, even in the summer. Humidity doesn’t really exist here. But this year we have gotten about 50% more rain on the front range than we usually do by this time of year. While my animals may disagree with me here, I love when an afternoon thunderstorm rolls in. First of all, it means my plants will be wet and happy without my daily watering. Second, there is just something so cozy about being inside while the tempest is raging outside. And third, it usually cools things down for the evening and makes my house just a little more comfortable for sleeping.
  4. Loki. Guys, Disney has been hitting it out of the park with their Marvel series this summer. I loved WandaVision, Falcon and the Winter Soldier, and now Loki. It was a smart, funny, and heartwarming journey for one of our favorite antiheroes of the Avengers. And Tom Hiddleston does such a great job of playing the character! You can tell he really loves being in this role. Again, these might not be the best shows for you if you aren’t already an MCU fan and don’t have a working knowledge of the characters. But, also, what better time than now to get rolling on the whole franchise!
  5. Roasting garlic and jalapeños. I made cheesy grits for a dinner one night this week and I added canned corn along with roasted garlic and jalapeños. I decided to try roasting them in my air fryer/toaster oven on just the bake setting and it worked! All in all, it was much faster from start to finish than if I had used my big oven. And it didn’t overheat my whole kitchen!

Friday Five Things 7/9

“You will either step forward into growth, or you will step backward into safety.” – Abraham Maslow

Better late than never, right? This has been one of those weeks where I’ve completely lost track of the days, so even though I “knew” today was Friday, I didn’t remember it was Friday until just now… Anyway, on to the good things!

  1. Mozzarella. I’ve been buying a ball of fresh mozzarella and having it in a grilled cheese or some caprese for lunch. It is such a perfect summertime cheese to have on hand! The other day I did a salad with mozzarella, strawberries, avocado, and spinach. Yum!
  2. Looooong hike. I decided to challenge myself earlier this week and I did an 8 mile hike with 1200ft elevation gain! It was tough and hot and tiring, but I finished in less than 4 hours and I felt so great to have accomplished it. My legs and feet were sore that afternoon, but I woke up feeling pretty okay the next couple days. So I think that means I might finally be ready to bag my first 14er after having lived in Colorado for 20+ years!
  3. Cucumber plants. For several years we’ve tried to grow cucumbers with little to no success. This year I changed up the locations for all my plants and the cukes are now on the deck under some partial shade. And they are THRIVING! They aren’t fruiting just yet, but the actual plants are three times as big as we’ve ever gotten them and there are tons of flowers. Here’s hoping we can harvest some without the squirrels ruining everything!
  4. Puzzles. Puzzles were always part of my life growing up. And last March when we were stuck inside puzzles became a regular pastime for me, especially while on long conference calls! Anyway, I’ve kind of been taking a break over the past few months but this week I pulled out a 1,000 piece puzzle that I hadn’t done yet. And I’m hooked again! It is just so meditative and relaxing for me to sit and put in piece after piece. And then I feel so accomplished at the end of it!
  5. House updates. The front of our house is now 90% finished painting! Everything is covered with at least the first coat and there are a few places that will need a second coat/touch up but you can really only see those from up close. It’s like a whole new house from the street! Still need to finish around the sides and the back especially. We are starting to think about what color to paint the front door and have some fun ideas for updates in that area. I’m really glad we decided to do it ourselves, not only do I think we’ve done a pretty good job with the painting, but it’s also has given me more confidence when thinking about other DIY home projects that I could help with or do myself!

June Book Report

“The worst thing about new books is that they keep us from reading the old ones.” – Joseph Joubert

June ended up not being a huge reading month for me. I had several books I had hoped to finish in addition to this list…and it just didn’t happen. The good news is, I really enjoyed the three books that I did read!

Words of Radiance by Brandon Sanderson – Second book of the Stormlight Archives series. Again… if you aren’t into fantasy worlds feel free to skip. But I am really liking this series even more than the Mistborn series. The characters feel more complex and world feels more real and comprehensive. In this second book a little more of the lost and distorted history of the world is made clearer. Many characters discover their powers and start to learn more about what they can and cannot do. Many of the main characters who have been disconnected are brought together and we get to see them interact. There are a lot of characters to keep track of, which some people don’t appreciate but I personally love seeing all the different perspectives on a story.

Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott – I read this book in a college class that was about teaching writing to high schoolers. I loved it then and I love it again now. Anne Lamott is very irreverent about everything…but especially about what it means to be a writer. She lays all of the difficulties and insecurities that writers have out in the open in a successful attempt to make you feel less alone about your perceived shortcomings. In the midst of her humor and self-deprivation, she also provides a very real and tangible approach to writing, including things like writing in “small assignments” by focusing on one scene at a time. Or as the title says “bird by bird.” Highly recommend if you are looking for something on this subject.

Firefly Lane by Kristin Hannah – This was an entertaining little fluff of a novel. It definitely deals with some difficult subjects (rape, parental neglect, terminal illness) but there are also a lot of fun scenes as we watch two best friends grow up just outside of and then right inside of Seattle. The book takes us from their childhood in the seventies through each decade until the early 2000s. I mostly really enjoyed this novel, but I also found it hard to root for the main characters sometimes because of their inability to stand up for themselves. It makes sense when they are younger, but it becomes less forgivable the older they get. There is also a lot of theming around career vs. family that I think is a little too binary. But other than that, I would recommend as a good vacation read!

Friday Five Things 7/2

“The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt.” – Sylvia Plath

Hi friends and happy Friday! I know I’ve been a bit negligent about posting every Friday, but things are getting busy around here! I’m planning to put out my Book Report for June on Monday and then resume regular Friday posts for the rest of the summer.

  1. Freedom to adjust expectations. For most of May I was writing a lot most days of the week. Then in June my creativity seemed to dry up for some reason. I spent the first few weeks trying to force myself into the same routine from May before I remembered that I have the freedom to adjust my expectations. So I made a shift to only asking myself to write 300 words every day. The result is that I added to my manuscript much slower this month, but I was able to actually get words on the page every day instead of sitting for two hours without any progress. Reducing the expectation on myself for a single writing session freed up the block I was having, if only a little bit. For July I plan to continue the 300 words per day and see where the rest of the summer takes me.
  2. The ability to escape to the mountains. After a few weeks of super hot weather where we live, we decided to escape to the mountains and it was definitely a cool down! A little too chilly at times to be honest, but after several days of 90 degree heat I didn’t mind a couple mornings with a fire in the fireplace. We are super lucky to have a free place to stay when we head up there and live close enough to do it on a whim. On the way up to Breckenridge this weekend, Tyler planned a little side excursion to hike up to St. Mary’s Glacier as a surprise for me. Bama loved it, rolling in the slushy ice of the glacier especially. We also did a half day Jeep trail on Friday morning and had a little lunch picnic above tree line. Nothing big, just little adventures out of our normal routine that bring me joy.
  3. Physical wellness. I’m not what anyone would call “in great shape” but this morning I was hiking and was so grateful for what my body can do for me. There have been several stark reminders in my life recently that you can’t take wellness for granted so I am going to take joy from the fact that I can hike four miles in the morning and still have energy to vacuum the whole house in the afternoon.
  4. BLTs (with avocado). No hidden meaning here…just very thankful to live in a world with ripe tomatoes in the summer for delicious BLTs.
  5. Luca. New Pixar movie released on Disney+. It isn’t a huge epic musical Disney movie, but it is so sweet and so magical. I loved watching it and I’ve been recommending it to everyone. I won’t say anything else to avoid any spoilers…but it’s just so darn adorable!

Friday Five Things 6/18

“Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” – Anne Lamott

I’ve needed some time away from routine and schedule for the past couple weeks, which has included deadlines for this blog. It has been HOT here and that kind of heat always affects my motivation and focus. So I just kind of went with it and got little things done around the house, read a lot, and had small little burst of productivity. It has been good for me and I think I’m ready to get back to my regularly scheduled programming.

  1. My garden is thriving! Both my wildflowers in the front yard and my herbs and veggies in the back are doing great. I’ve had a couple harvests of spinach and kale already and I love not needing to buy it at the store every week, especially since I’ve been into salads recently.
  2. Summer salads. I’m not a big salad person, especially making them myself at home. But this week I made two really delicious salads that I’ll be making again! The first was sliced cucumber and red onions marinated in a vinaigrette (like this). Then I had that over top of spinach (obviously) and torn pieces of fresh mozzarella. Soooo good. The other salad was spinach again, sliced strawberries, goat cheese crumbles, chopped walnuts with a homemade basil vinaigrette (this one is so good!) Both of these were really simple to put together and really refreshing in the heat this week!
  3. Monday morning walks. A friend and I went for a walk on Monday morning and it was so lovely we decided we should do it every week! Now I have something to look forward to at the beginning of each week and hopefully it will act as an anchor in time for kicking off the week the right way!
  4. Painting our house. Like, the outside! We have a red house and the exterior paint is super faded. We’ve tried to find another red that we like, but in the end decided to go with a blue/gray color called Adirondack Blue. And it’s going to be my summer project to do the painting! I figure if I really screw up badly, we can hire someone to touch up trim and stuff, but hopefully we don’t need that. Also really happy we don’t have an HOA because this isn’t something I’m going to get done quickly. We’ll have a partially painted house for awhile…
  5. Character breakthroughs in my writing. In the past couple weeks I’ve really started to get to know the main character in my novel and figure out some of her motivations and neuroses. It’s been fun to write a scene and know exactly how she is going to react to something! Still figuring out some of the other characters, but feeling good about where things are headed.

May Book Report

“If you don’t like to read, you haven’t found the right book.” – J.K. Rowling

Tyler and I spent last week visiting his side of the family in Florida. I was hoping to get this book report pushed out during the week as well as hit my usually scheduled Friday post, but we didn’t really have much downtime! In any case, here are the books I read last month!

Sister Outsider by Audre Lorde – This is a heavy, dense collection of speeches, essays, and letters that I’ve been reading for the past few months. Because it’s a collection, it’s easy to read a little at a time and I’d recommend doing it that way to make sure you have time to reflect and absorb. Audre Lorde was a Black, lesbian poet and she talks extensively in these writings about intersectional feminism, the differences of what white women face vs. what Black women face vs. what gay women face. While I am not the intended audience for all of these writings, several are directed at her fellow Black women, I found it a super interesting and informative look at her experience and peeling back the layers past what we typically see or read about in the mainstream anti-racism books. Audre was a poet so her language is not strictly academic, but she was also a teacher so you definitely catch that in her writing as well. I would recommend if you are interested in personal experience with intersectional feminism. But I know this book won’t be for everyone.

The Cousins by Karen M. McManus – This book was a fun, quick read. I won’t call it totally light-hearted, because it deals with some ugly and brutal family secrets. But it is about a group of teenaged cousins set during the summer on a remote island somewhere off the coast of New England. So there’s plenty of teenage drama and fun mixed into the heavier stuff. I read it pretty quickly and would definitely recommend if you are a fan of mystery/suspense, but are looking for something that isn’t a twisted as Gone Girl! Good summer read.

The Lost Girls of Devon by Barbara O’Neal – The story follows a family of women who struggle with mother/daughter relationships and a mysterious disappearance in their small town on the coast of England. I found the intergenerational dynamics of each woman’s story intertwined with the others to be really interesting and realistic. And the way their personal stories were set against the over the background story of a missing woman raised the stakes. This is the second book by O’Neal that I’ve read and mostly enjoyed. The conclusions that I’ve drawn is that she knows how to write a really good and engaging book, but not really how to end a book. This one was similar to When We Were Mermaids in that I was so drawn into the story and the mystery and drama that I couldn’t put it down. And then all of a sudden everything gets wrapped up neatly in a bow in the last 30 pages or so. So if you like a really interesting quick read without an intricate and sophisticated ending, you will love this book!

Way of Kings by Brandon Sanderson – I started a new fantasy series by Brandon Sanderson that I’ve had recommended to me several times. Way of Kings is the first book and, as with almost all new fantasy or sci-fi series, it takes a bit to get into the new world and the new rules of the world. I found this one kind of skipped over a lot of exposition to set the scene, but that meant it leaves the reader responsible for putting things together based on the action. The world has been shaped by intense storm fronts that sweep through the landscape at fairly frequent but not regular intervals. These highstorms dominate the landscape, so all soil has been scoured away and plants grow directly out of the rock. They also have the ability to retract to escape the destructive winds and rain. There is a war that has been waging for 6 years, a dominant religion in the region, old forgotten history that made it’s way into common lore, and mysterious powers that manifest. I’d say this book was super slow to get going but once it did, it really picked up speed fast. I am very excited to get into the second book!

The Meaning of Mariah by Mariah Carey – I listened to this on audiobook while cleaning the house or out walking with the dog. I think listening to Mariah tell her own story gives it a little extra punch, with her putting the right inflection and tone in the right spots, even singing at certain points. I had really high hopes for this book, but…I just didn’t like it. While the individual stories are good and I’m sure an honest reflection of Mariah’s personal experiences, the writing was just so bad. It read like a cross between a little girl’s overly dramatic diary entries and a middle schooler’s essay dripping with metaphors and similes. Like…nothing escaped description by simile. Or sometimes multiple similes. It also jumped around a lot as well, so it was difficult to really follow a chronological thread through the book. And, as I listened to it, I was mentally editing the manuscript. Deleting repetitive sentences or rearranging paragraphs so they story flowed better without interruption. I’m sure it would have been even worse if I was actually reading it on a page. My other issue with the book is that Mariah takes every opportunity to blame other people for the scandals and missteps in her career. I’m sure she had people try to sabotage or give her really bad advice, but she really took the time to call out almost every negative headline about her through the years and place the blame squarely on someone else’s shoulders. It just rubbed the the wrong way. So…in conclusion…probably a fun read or listen if you are a big Mariah fan. But maybe a “don’t read” if you are a writer, or even writer-adjacent, because you will pull your hair out and wonder why she didn’t hire a good ghost writer or, perhaps, listen to the one she did have.

Friday Five Things 5/28

“Try as much as possible to be wholly alive, will all your might, and when you laugh, laugh like hell.” – William Saroyan

May Book Report will be published mid-next week! I’m almost finished with a couple books that I want to include for May. In other news, we had a pretty productive week around here and I’m feeling really excited about this summer!

  1. Balance (or lack thereof) – I’ve talked a bit on here about different time/energy management techniques I’ve tried. Time blocking by days so different activities happen at different times. Time blocking by week so different activities happen on different days. Trying to match my daily energy highs and lows with different tasks to be more efficient. Etc… What has been working for me best recently is to let go of the idea that each day or week is going to look and feel the same. So I’ve been spending time Sunday evening or Monday morning plotting out my week with daily to-do lists and then each morning planning out my days based on what needs to get done. For example: Mondays are usually a day that I need to finish up some chores, grocery shop, and run other errands to places I avoid on weekends. I also like to get a long hike in on Monday mornings. So I don’t put writing on my to-do list and just focus on getting other stuff off the list for the week. Then I have writing on my lists for Tues-Fri. Another example is that I don’t always work out at the same time every day. For hikes, I like to go earlier in the day when it isn’t too hot. But I prefer late afternoon neighborhood walks and midday for strength exercises. Just another example of how things that are best practice in general might not be best for specific people! My days aren’t all balanced with each other, but overall I feel that I’m working towards a more even existence.
  2. New back deck furniture – Well, it’s just one piece of new furniture but I rearranged everything into a configuration that is making me want to spend more time out back! When we first moved into this house the back deck was literally falling apart, so we knew it needed to be rebuilt. Tyler put in a lot of time and effort to design and build a gorgeous back deck that really extended our living space outdoors. We got some chairs and a table and he put in some built-in benches around a little fire pit, but it just didn’t feel like a place you wanted to spend time. So I made it a priority this summer to utilize the space more and figured out a solution to maximize our space with only purchasing one new item! I moved the dining table over to the benches and it fits perfectly with them as seating. Then I moved the fire pit to where the table was with the leftover chairs and purchased this outdoor couch. We ordered it from Lowe’s on sale but I’m not seeing it on their site anymore. It’s pretty spacious and the armrests can lower to provide even more bench seating if necessary! Since I set it up we’ve come out here almost every evening and I’ve been doing my daily planning and journaling out here. Mission accomplished!
  3. Garden updates – Last week I finally purchased all my little veggies plants and got them into the dirt. Since we have chickens we don’t plant in the ground, everything is in containers or a table height raised bed Tyler build a few years ago. We’ve already had to fashion a cage of sorts to keep the squirrels off the strawberry plant and I’m assuming we’ll do the same for the peppers and tomatoes eventually, but so far so good! We have spinach, kale, zucchini, cucumbers, jalapeños, bell peppers, two kinds of tomatoes, strawberries, mint, sage, basil, and rosemary! I might still get a few more herbs but for now I think we’ve covered the things we eat most in our house. Also, when we were buying the veggies I saw two little red and white columbines on the clearance shelf and bought them for $4 each. They’re in the ground and coming back to strength nicely. Excited about my ever growing flower collection in the front yard.
  4. Hiking – I found a new trail that might be my new favorite! It’s right up next to the mountains but still had a lot of open meadows space with wildflowers. I also like it because it’s a perfect length and incline to really make it a workout for me, but I can finish it in under 2 hours. I hiked it twice this week, once with my dog (Bama) and once alone. And I’m sure I’ll be going back more in the coming months!
  5. Journaling – Since last fall I’ve been journaling pretty consistently every day. Sure I miss a few days here and there, but the point isn’t perfection. I feel like this habit has really paid off this week as I’ve had some not-so-great feelings swimming around in my head. Just articulating what is bothering me and getting it out on paper has been so helpful! I also think, as a writer, that it helps to start every day getting words on paper, no matter what those words are. “Morning pages” are a thing I’ve learned about and fully support!

Friday Five Things 5/21

This was one of those weeks that I hypothetically planned for at the beginning of the year. I spent two days staying with my mom and driving her to some appointments. She’s been sick for a couple weeks and my dad had to go out of town for work, so I happily adjusted my to-do lists for the week and drove 45 minutes to their house on Tuesday morning. I was still able to get stuff done, but being out of my normal routine always put a hitch in my productivity. I think if I had come into 2021 with the mentality that I had to hit hard and fast goals on a strict timeline, this would have thrown me for more of a loop. Instead I was able to take it, adjust as needed, and still make some headway on my own stuff while getting to be present and support my family!

  1. Rearranging and decluttering – This seems to be a never ending task in our house as we are constantly discovering new and better ways to use our space. Earlier this week we decided that we want to build a new kitchen table that will fit our space better and start utilizing the bar countertop we have. This meant I needed to find a new place/configuration for the storage shelves that are currently under the bar area. And then move the trash can under another counter into a cabinet area. Both of those actions required decluttering some other cabinets and drawers to free up space to relocate items. Whenever I have projects like this, I go into a bit of a frenzy to get it all done at once. But when I finished, everything had a place minus a few old pans, a teapot, and some other hodgepodge items to donate. And I like the new configuration so much more! We now have room to get a new table and some chairs for the bar!
  2. Watching Disney World YouTube with my mom – We had to postpone a big family trip to Disney World until next year, but we’re already in planning mode! Since we were just resting and relaxing at the house, my mom and I watched a couple YouTubers walk through Animal Kingdom and it was a lot of fun! If you are planning a trip anywhere, rest assured that someone has done a YouTube video with all the things you can do and see!
  3. Lilacs are blooming – Lilacs are pervasive where I live and I love this time of year when they all bloom in colors of purple, white and pink. In my neighborhood there are some giant lilac plants with tons of blossoms. My own little lilac didn’t bloom last year, we think some weed killer blew onto the buds because the leaves came in all deformed. But this year it is happy and healthy and full of flowers! Makes me very happy.
  4. Broccoli Cheese Potato Soup meal prep – I’ve been really into having soup for lunch but it was getting a little spendy to keep buying it at the store. I mean, I usually wanted to get the good soups, not just ramen or Campbell’s chicken noodle. So this week I told myself I’d make a big pot of soup for the week and it was delicious! I didn’t really follow a recipe, but I sautéed half a diced onion in a tiny bit of olive oil, then added a few cups of cubed red potatoes (I think they hold up better in soups than the big russets), chopped broccoli florets and 4 cups of vegetable broth and let that cook for awhile until the potatoes were just tender. Then I added 1 1/2 cups of heavy cream and 1/2 cup of milk. I let that simmer for a few minutes and then added a lot of shredded cheddar cheese. It was not a healthy soup, but it was deeeeelicious! And a small bowl of it was nice and filling.
  5. Writing inspiration – I had a few really good writing sessions this week where the words and ideas just flowed. It feels really great when you sit down and realize you’ve written 1500 words in 30 minutes! For reference, other days it’s like pulling nails to get 500 words on the page in a full day of writing. So hopefully I’m moving in the right direction with my ideas so inspiration keeps coming!