February Book Report

“Sleep is good, he said, and books are better.” – George R. R. Martin. I found myself sacrificing sleep this month because the books were so good!

The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes by Suzanne Collins – (Actually finished this one in January but forgot to include it in my January Book Report.) If you are a fan of the original Hunger Games books, definitely read this one! It’s a pretty interested prequel, taking a closer look at President Snow’s childhood and how he became the monster we see in the main books. Lots of interesting commentary on power dynamics, political corruption, and “othering” of people. But in the end, it’s very much a young adult book so it doesn’t get overly deep.

The Hero of Ages by Brandon Sanderson – The final book of the first Mistborn trilogy. I enjoyed it! It was LONG. I mean, the other two were long also but this one felt like it took longer to read. Maybe because there were a lot more diverging story lines in this one and more plot points to keep track of. But I felt it wrapped up the story really well and the ending was in keeping with the books.

When We Believed in Mermaids by Barbara O’Neal – I enjoyed this book but in the end, I’m not entirely sure how to describe it. It was not a dense read but it dealt with some pretty heavy subjects (sexual assault, addiction, childhood trauma). The main character wades through her own trauma response while trying to reconnect with a lost family member, but at the same time she gets involved in a vacation love story… I also didn’t really like the ending, it felt false. But endings don’t ruin the entire book for me. So I’d recommend this if you aren’t sensitive to difficult topics but also just want something easy to read.

Troubled Blood by Robert Galbraith – Galbraith is a pseudonym of JK Rowling, presumably to discourage her young Harry Potter fans from picking up these books since they explore violent issues such as murder, domestic abuse, and sexual assault. This fifth installment in the series is no different. The primary characters are a seasoned private detective and his temp-turned-business partner. While this wasn’t my favorite of the series so far, it was still an interesting read and definitely kept me guessing. Rowling does a great job of bringing the reader along in the investigation, providing enough clues to make you think you know what’s happening and then bringing in a truly surprising twist at the end. And the twist doesn’t come out of nowhere, the detectives always walk back through the clues and you realize it was there all along. Anyway, if you like good detective novels I’d recommend it, but start at the beginning of the series with Cuckoo’s Calling.

How to be an Antiracist by Ibram X. Kendi – This book is good. Dense, but good. I am glad I read some of the other antiracism books I’ve discussed in previous posts first, because it gave me a good foundation to really engage in some of Kendi’s deeper points. He writes like an academic, but it’s not like reading a dry textbook. He does a great job of peeling back the layers of racism to expose all the hidden nuances by discussing his own journey as a black man from racist ideas to being an antiracist activist. Highly recommend for those who are serious about continuing their journey of unlearning and learning.

Friday Five Things

After writing my blog post last week about my favorite Valentine’s Day memories, I had such a feeling of gratitude after dwelling on the things that make me happy. As I was looking through draft posts and topic lists to decide what to write today, I realized that I use this platform a lot to express my opinions about what I think is wrong in the world today and how we can fix it. (Enneagram Type 1 much?) So this morning I decided to fully dedicate Fridays to things that make me smile going forward.

I’ll still do occasional recipe posts and my monthly book reports, but on other Fridays my plan is to do a quick list of 5 things that brought joy to me from the past week. My hope is that this will prompt others into a grateful mindset or give people some fun ideas to check out for themselves.

  1. My house plants! This past week of winter weather has been brutal for a lot of people. I am lucky that Colorado wasn’t as severely impacted as some other parts of the country, but it’s still been frigid and gray here. Seeing my green plants thrive inside my house always makes me smile.
  2. The TV show Superstore. A few weeks ago my sister recommended that Tyler and I check out this show and we’ve been loving it! It’s a very funny show with some quirky characters and offers a witty and satirical look at issues in today’s society. We’ve been watching old episodes on Hulu every night.
  3. Nightly Aquaphor. Winter in Colorado can be mild, but dry dry dry. So to keep my skin from drying to a husk overnight, I’ve been putting a small amount (like, maybe a pea size) of Aquaphor on my face over my usual nightly skin care. There’s usually enough leftover to rub into my hands as well. If you think I’m crazy, look up “skincare slugging” and you’ll see lots of articles talking about the benefit of using either Aquaphor or Vaseline on your face.
  4. The Daily Page Planner. You guys…I’ve been using the digital version of this planner for a few months now and it’s everything I wanted in a daily planner. It’s super simple…monthly pages and daily pages. The daily page format has space for your top 3 things for the day as well as the rest of your to-do list. It also has room for you to either plan or track your meals and track your water intake. There are a couple other notes fields for health/wellness notes as well as general thoughts and ideas. I don’t use every section every day, but it certainly has helped me keep on task! I’ll have to do a longer post in the next few weeks about how I use it on a weekly and daily basis. Sold on Etsy if you want to search for it.
  5. Giving advice. Seriously, being asked for my thoughts on something is one of my favorite things. I’ve always felt like I have a gift of asking the right questions and helping people see things from a different perspective. I’ve had several conversations recently where I feel like I was able to help someone determine the next steps they should take in order to drive toward resolution. And it really brings me so much joy to feel like I’ve helped in some way!